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There was an Irish woman, an informal babysitter, who would pick me up from school. I went to a school with a mixture of students - Jamaican, Ghanaian, white British - and I excelled academically and at sport. I started thinking: "I better start speaking like an English girl. But there is a huge difference between going out with a white Polish man and a white English man.

If I said that I found a white guy cute some of my black friends would go: "Ugh! There was an undercurrent to his words.

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But around young people my own age there was a different set of challenges. I was born in Nigeria but moved to south London when I was five. I had left my father in Lagos to move in with my mother, but by the time I got here she had a new partner and was pregnant. I thought about my identity from a very young age. When we got to the age of dating, my attraction to people wasn't based on ethnicity. I was at the beach in Poland when a man called me the Polish version of the N-word. I saw so many people who looked like me in Peckham, they were calling out to each other in the street.

Then I had a moment of introspection where I thought, hang on, I'm one of those women.

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There's no shorthand. Your kids will have to face it. And there, some white children would laugh at my pronunciation.

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I felt comfortable with them. In some ways, a more honest form of communication. He sent me a message saying: "Would you like to go for a coffee sometime? With one serious boyfriend it bothered me that he called my mum "Christine", even when I specifically told him to call her Aunty. It was a different kind of connection. Around my black friends, if I enunciated my words I was asked: "Why do you speak like a white girl? His colour didn't factor into my attraction.

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I think that was mainly because we talked on MSN messenger. The same guy often put me down. We had a shorthand.

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He's a migrant like me. I liked it.

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Luckily for me I'm not dating those people, I'm dating this person. We're all in it together. He came here to build a life for himself. Culturally, my home was Nigerian, it wasn't British. But we like each other so much that we have decided to tackle these differences together. In my experience, many of the white English guys and I say English because I haven't had experience around Welsh, Scottish or Irish men I knew didn't know their true history.

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My first white boyfriend was when I was a teenager. I have an online following.

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We could talk so easily with each other. But recently, she has been under attack on social media for having a white fiance - which some have accused her of hiding. It's exhausting having to explain your life and culture to someone who hasn't lived it. He wasn't respectful enough to adapt to that part of my culture. I can't believe you haven't been taught that. We didn't talk about race. But what I've found with my fiance, and many Polish people I've met through him, is a deep understanding of being a minority and facing prejudice in this country.

These parts of history aren't delved into in secondary schools.

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To explain where I stand, I need to tell you about my childhood. On my profile I had put an instruction to not contact me unless they had closely read my bio and understood my passions and hobbies.

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I want to meet you for a coffee. No way! If they were, many people might have a better understanding of the minority experience. Poland didn't have independence for more than a hundred years before Historically it's a country with people that know what it's like to be governed by outsiders.

When people think about interracial relationships, very rarely do they think of the nuance. One day he and I were at a pond, and I said: "Oh wow, look at that duck! Dating them felt more familiar.

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Often, I felt like an outsider in my own home. I grew up in Peckham in a predominantly black neighbourhood - they call it Little Lagos. A while ago I thought, why does it seem that most prominent black female activists seem to be dating white men? That way we can relate to each other. These things started making me realise that I didn't sound like everybody else.

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With the white English men I dated, I often felt sexually fetishised and often patronised. You often have to explain certain cultural ways before you can enjoy it. I worry for people in interracial relationships who say, "I don't see colour. And I have a white fiance who rarely features in my social media spaces. The buildings looked different but it all felt very familiar. I speak up about racism and sexism affecting black women. That was a big moment for me. I was moving into a family unit that I wasn't part of.

When I got to this country one of the first things I remember is speaking Yoruba in the car with my mum.

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I lived online. My stepdad, who was also Nigerian, turned to me and said: "Start speaking English. Kelechi Okafor: Twerking through trauma. From our first date we got on. But it was for some of my friends.

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It was almost as if I hadn't left West Africa. I wouldn't have that level of compatibility with a white English man. The streets looked different. We're all in the school together. It was like home. I thought: "Oh he's so handsome. Actress and dancer Kelechi Okafor has built a large online following talking about issues affecting black British women. While I dated both black and white boys, I couldn't ignore the fact that I felt more comfortable with black boys. There were people there my mum had grown up with in Lagos.

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I didn't have to explain what okra or a plantain was or why they needed, out of respect, to call my mum Aunty. This doesn't mean I haven't experienced racism from Polish people. They don't know about much about the transatlantic slave trade or colonisation. My partner grew up under communism in a working class family, and that place of scarcity is something I can relate to as well. He wasn't going to woo me with a War and Peace-length love letter. A lot of my growing up, development and expression happened online. Love is not colour blind. I'd eat Nutella on toast with her children at her home while I waited for my mum to come and collect me.

So different to my Nigerian upbringing. A superiority. But going out with a white guy was a whole new cultural experience. I met my fiance online, on a dating site.